the only way your gunna be able to get through life is by accepting and understanding that your in control of what happens in your life.
your in control of how you feel about what happens to you in life.
your in control of what you do.
your responsible for the things you do.
you always have a choice in life.
whatever your choose, your responsible for that choice and responsible for the consequences.

--There are no excuse's in life.
Your choice your responsibility